How to Eat Pussy: Complete Guide to Going Down on her

How to Eat Pussy: Complete Guide to Going Down on her

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Figuring out how to eat pussy can take a while to fully master, but not too hard to get the basics down.  In fact, with some practice you’ll learn how to eat pussy like a tongue god after a few times if you focus.

Why I don’t recommend making a habit out of eating pussy

That being said, I don’t recommend you make a habit out of eating pussy all the time.  It puts you in a weak position.  You’re in the submissive position when you’re going down on her.  The dominant position would be her sucking your dick.

That being said, if you learn how to eat pussy properly that your woman will be physically addicted to you.  If a girl sucks your dick well, you still miss that when you don’t have it.  And a girl will think about how much you made her cum when you know how to eat pussy.

However, it will mess up relationship dynamic if you do it too much.

If you’re already a beta follower then you won’t notice anything.  But if you’re the alpha then you’ll notice that an otherwise feminine girl will start to challenge your leadership.  All women shit test from time to time.  But a woman who constantly has you eating her pussy will try to dominate you more than usual.

It can cause problems if used too much.

Benefits to Eating Pussy

girl having an orgasm, going down on her

But of course there are benefits to eating pussy.  That’s why I’m writing this article in the first place.  Those benefits of eating pussy include

  1. Get her physically addicted to you
  2. Compensation for not being amazing at sex
  3. Makes it easier to be good at sex

Women like a big duck inside of them.  But at the end of the day, a tongue that can make them cum over and over is still addictive.

1. Physically addicted

And if you don’t know how to fuck a girl properly, or haven’t mastered elements of that like lasting long or making her cum during sex, then know how to eat pussy is a good way to compensate for that.  People talk about compensating for things like it’s always bad.  But it’s not.

2. Compensation

If you’re a short guy, you can still do well with women.  But you need to have an amazing body, have your money up, have status, and so on.  A tall guy would be better off with those things, but doesn’t need to have his shit together as much.   Compensating in other areas is a way to even out the playing field.

As a player in the game, you should be trying to max out every area you can.

When it comes to sex, you can compensate for your lack of sex mastery with eating pussy.  This is a solid short term solution to keep the girl around.  You’ll need to actually get good at sex if you want to be the strong dominant man that she falls in love with. However, knowing how to eat pussy well is still going to keep her coming back for more.

3. Easier to be good at sex

And eating pussy also makes it easier to look like you’re good at sex.  If you make her cum 2, 3, or 4 times by going down on her and then you have sex, you won’t need to last as long.  And since she’s already cummed a few times, she’ll be able to cum easier. So you’ll give her a better dick experience as well.

Eating pussy 101

All this talk about eating pussy.  Now it’s time to break it down.  I’m going to discuss how to eat pussy from start to finish.  This is assuming you’re with a girl already in bed, who’s consenting to fuck and engage in sexual relations with you.  If you want to know more about how to turn a girl on once she’s in her bed but for regular sex, then check out the guide here.

1. Tease her

lower back, turning a girl on

The first thing you need to do before going down on her is to tease her.  Just like you flirt with a woman to tease her mind, you need to tease her body as well.  Tease her before you ever touch her pussy.  Kiss her body. Make your way down near her pussy. Take off her clothes.  Then skip over her pussy.  Kiss up and down her legs, bite her legs, lick her legs.  Do this a few times to get her really excited.

Remember to take your time.  She should be begging you, either with words or physically, to go down on her.

More than half of this is mental with women.  If they’re super turned on by you then they’ll cum much easier, much quicker, and much harder.  Tease her during the whole process and make her want it.  Eventually you can start to kiss in-between her legs right near her pussy.  And then, very slowly, you can begin eating pussy.

2. Start slow

Remember to start slow.  Start with one lick.  Then two.  Even before I lick the clit directly I go for the outside lips just to tease her.  Then I’ll isolate her clit with my fingers and lick all around the clit.  And then, very slowly, I’ll touch the clit with my tongue. Then I’ll lick around the clit again.  And then now I’ll lick the clit. Still very slowly.

She should be moving her hips and practically pushing your face into her pussy.  When she’s still begging you to lick her you’re doing something right.

3. Go for the clit

how to make a girl cum - finding the clit

You’ve teased her and started slow.  You should spend the rest of your time eating pussy by focusing on the clit.

Isolate the clit with your fingers.  Use your pointer and middle finger or even your thumb and pointer finger.  This way you can keep her clit front and center.  It’s much easier to just lick the clit directly.  She’ll cum like crazy from this.  And you won’t get as tired.  If you lick her entire pussy, you’ll use a lot more of your tongue stamina.  It’s simply a waste of energy as well.

If she can handle you can use two fingers in her pussy while licking clit.  Use a “come here” motion with your fingers to get her g-spot while you’re also licking her pussy.  Since you’ll likely use your dominant hand to finger her, you can use the thumb and pointer finger of your non-dominate hand to keep her clit in front of your tongue.

The girls who can handle this will go wild and cum like crazy.

4. Transition to sex

how to turn a girl on

After you’ve made her cu multiple times you can transition to regular sex.  You simply come up from going down on her and then can put it in.  If you’re going raw then it makes it pretty easy to just slip in.  However all of you single players out there need to be wrapping up.  A real slick move is to put the condom on when you’re still going down on her.  This takes some good logistics planning with the location of the condom and mutli-tasking on your part.

But no worries if you can’t do that.  Just get your condom from under your pillow or where you had it and put it on.

In either case, I like to rub my dick on the girls clit before just putting it in.  This goes back to teasing them and getting them more excited.  You want her to want you as much as possible.  The sex will be way better and you’ll get to see how her inner freak really is.

Guidelines when going down on her

You now know how to east pussy.  But here’s a few extra guidelines and points I want to reinforce.

Hold her hips in place

eating pussy, holding her hips in place

When you’re eating pussy, and especially when you’re doing it well, she’s going to move.  She won’t be able to help it.  Holding her hips in place will help you continue to eat her out while she’s enjoying herself.  You’ll prevent her from falling off the bed and from hitting her head on the wall.

An easy way to hold her hips is to have your hands underneath her legs and then wrap up over.

Keep the focus on the clit

The other guideline is to focus on the clit.  This was already a main step in figuring out how to east pussy.  However I want to say it again to emphasize its importance.

Licking the rest of the vagina is good for teasing her and before hand. But it doesn’t really stimulate her that much.  That’s what the clit is for.  Keep the majority of the focus on the clit once you’ve made it there.  That way you’ll be going down on her in the kind of way that will get her addicted.

Stamina

It takes tongue stamina to properly eat pussy.  If your tongue is getting tired then use a finger to rub her clit. Y ou should build up some stamina if you get into the habit of eating pussy often.  But I’d rather have you just focus on the clit for now and then get great at sex so you don’t need to always go down on her.

Don’t stop

Don’t stop until she busts. It’s a big mistake to go down on her and then quit before she cums.  Some girls cum easily and others take longer, but don’t stop until she cums at least once.  Ideally 2-4 times though since going down on a girl is an easy way to make her cum.

Some girls will cum rather quickly.

But don’t expect that.  Be in it to win it.  If you can make her cum a few times then you’ll have less to worry about during sex as she’s already gotten off a few times.  Going down on her takes some effort.  So if you’re going to be eating pussy then at least make sure she likes it and can get addicted to you.  If you can’t make a girl cum from licking her clit then you need to make sure you know what the clit actually is.  I’m confident that 95% of you reading this know what it looks like and can find it.  On some girls it’s big and others it’s hidden.  Once you find it, don’t stop until she busts.

Use it sparingly

sex tips for men

Ideally, you want the girl sucking your dick and then you fuck her well, or vice versa.  Going down on a woman is a submissive behavior.  That being said, learning how to eat pussy is still a valuable skills because it can help to get a girl physically addicted to you.  If you’re still working on your sex skills, or want to use it once in a while, then it can be a powerful tool in your sex game arsenal.

Just don’t become dependent on eating pussy for your sex game.  Women still crave a big dick to fill them up and they want a strong dominant man.  Knowing how to eat pussy is solid skill to use while you’re still working on lasting long, becoming incredible at sex and knowing how to fuck her well, or when you’re trying to guarantee she’ll come back for more.

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