How to have Sex Appeal as a man

How to have Sex Appeal as a Man

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Having sex appeal as a man means that women find you sexually attractive.  There’s just something about you that turns them on.  When you have sex appeal as a man, you’ll find yourself being the sexual object instead of the woman.

Of course as a man, you still need to pursue at first.  At least a little bit.  But what sex appeal does is make you the guy that turns women on.  When you develop sex appeal, more women will show interest in you.  This is what I mean when I say a woman chooses you.  She gives you those “I want to fuck you” eyes.  Then she’ll look down or away.  And she’ll usually take another glance at two.

That’s when you approach and be the man.

What’s it like to be a man with sex appeal?

Sex appeal doesn’t mean you’re a good looking bitch who doesn’t do anything.  But it reverses the roles and makes you the object of desire.   A man with sex appeal will be able to casually approach girls who give him eye contact, chat her up, get the digits, and then have her chasing him.

A man with sex appeal is just that – he’s sexually appealing to women.  Not every woman of course.  Some women will always find you attractive, while others will never have interest in you.  But you can develop your sex appeal as a man so more women want to fuck with you.

This is essential for every man.  If you’re a player, having sex appeal is what makes it possible to continually meet attractive women.  You can cold approach tons of women everyday.  but if you have no sex appeal, they’ll have no interest in meeting up with you, let alone fucking you.

But if you work on your sex appeal, you can approach just 1 or 2 women a day who showed interest in you, and have a high chance of getting at them.  In fact, they’ll probably do most of the pursing after you initially chat them up.

For men with girlfriends or wives, sex appeal will still benefit you.  Especially if you grow it within a few months to a year, it will catch your girl off guard.  She’ll start to want fuck you more and she’ll wonder if you’re seeing other girls.  You’ll also become less desperate or dependent on her because other women in real life will send you choosing signals.

A tied down man doesn’t need to cheat or approach other women.  But just the confidence it will give you will be noticed by your woman, who will then be more submissive and want to fuck more.

Sex appeal is about becoming more sexy to more women.  Simple as that.  And there’s a few ways to  work on it.


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The first way, and most obvious, it to work on your looks.  As men we like a good looking girl.  Plain and simple.  While women evaluate more than just looks, a good looking man can turn them on just the same.  Women will look past, at least temporally, other bad traits in a man if he really turns her on.

When you work on your looks to the best degree you can, you’re going to have more women who want to fuck you.  Which means you can either fuck more women, higher quality women, or run dread game on your woman to get her to be on your agenda.


Lift weights and eat clean.  There’s  no magic to getting a killer body.  If you do 3 full body workouts a week, do some cardio or a martial art, and eat well, you’re going to have a great body.  Rock solid abs, nice arms, a masculine chest, broad shoulders… these are all things women go crazy for.

They’ll imagine your body on top of them doing all sorts of nasty things.  You might just be getting a coffee and while you’re in line, a woman sitting down with her latte will be fantasizing about you.  If you don’t take a look around you might be oblivious to this.  If you have some awareness, you’ll feel her checking you out.

This is common for men who have great bodies.

It’s not rocket science on how to get one.  Regardless of the face genetics you were given, every single man can achieve an incredible body.  Get to them gym and make it happen.


Style comes down to the way you dress, your facial hair, regular hair, the way you smell, and general hygiene.  It’s a given that you should shower everyday and wear deodorant.  Go the extra mile and wear a nice cologne.

Dress well – whether that’s casual with a v-neck and jeans that show off your body, or a little nicer with a shirt, pants, and shoes that look professional, fashionable, and still give hints of your masculine stature.  If you have tattoos, show them off when appropriate.

Have a fresh haircut twice a month and either shave or style your facial hair in a way that goes with your image.

When you have a great body, good style, and you’re not butt-ugly in the face, you’ll already be a man with lots of physical sex appeal.


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So we got the most obvious part of a man’s sex appeal out of the way.  Don’t skip that, as your looks will increase the way you feel about yourself and will carry over to your other areas.

But the way you look, while extremely important, isn’t the end all be all.  It’s the bait that reels women in.  You still need to have conversation game.  Learn how to talk to girls.  Basic conversation isn’r rocket science.  From there learn how to flirt and have a sexual energy.

Which isn’t talking for days and being annoying or telling made up stories.  It’s about the energy you have and your voice.  You need to know how to be chill yet keep women engaged with questions.  But having sex appeal when you talk is about the way you talk.

Energy you have when you talk

With the right energy, you’ll have women going crazy over you when you two are conversing.  Energy doesn’t mean being loud.  The kind of energy you need is “cool”, “powerful”,”sexy”,”relaxed”,”confident”, and “I’m the man, let’s see if you’re qualified to fuck with me” type of energy.  You’re masculine and powerful, yet calm and almost too cool for her, but not too stand-off ish.

It’s hard to describe it in exact words which is why I had all those descriptions.  But once you start to get the energy, you’ll know what I mean.


Your voice will come about when you have the right type of energy.  The deeper the voice the better.  I’m blessed with a deep voice.  Women often comment about it how it makes them feel relaxed and turned on, although they usually wait until we after fucked to tell me my voice turned them on.

While most of your voice is genetic, you can talk deeper by slowing down and talking from your balls.  When you talk fast, you speak from your mouth and your throat.  When you slow down, you’ll speak from your chest, your stomach, and finally your balls.  Practice speaking like this and you’ll eventually talk with a deeper, sexy tone than you currently do.  This will add tons of sex appeal to yourself when you’re talking with a woman.

Sexual social proof

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Sexual social proof is one of the most powerful tools in the game.  It’s one of the few ways you can get an ex back or get another girl who originally wrote you off sexually into you.  It’s also effective at increasing your sex appeal to girls you’ve never met before.

Sexual social proof is when women see you with other women.  More specifically, when they see you with attractive women.  Because you must understand that women want the men that other women want.  That’s why they like famous guys.  It’s just status on steroids.

And when a woman sees you with a different attractive woman, like out on a date or together in a fashion where it’s clear you two are fucking / dating, this raises your sex appeal and smv massively.

You can use sexual social proof in person where it’s most effective, or even on social media where it’s still very useful.

In person, you simply take attractive women out and are seen with them.  You can’t be desperate for their validation or treat them any differently.  But if you visit venues that you typically frequent with a beautiful girl, you’re going to get sexual social proof at the place or in a social group that sees you there.

Online is simple as well.  You just post pictures of yourself with women.  The majority of your pictures don’t need to be with women, just a few here and there.  If you have a cool life where you travel, do fun things, and then post a picture here and there with attractive women, that’s all it takes.  Other girls who follow you will see you as a man with higher sex appeal than they thought otherwise.

The caveat is that you need to already have some attractive women you interact with in order to gain sexual social proof.  However it’s like a snowball.  Once women start to see you as a man who gets attractive women, you’ll get more and more and more.


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The last thing you need is confidence.  All of the other aspects of sex appeal like your looks, conversation, and sexual social proof will improve your confidence.

And with massive confidence and looking presentable, you will get tons of women.  That’s what it really comes down to.

Confidence is everything and yet nothing.

Because most men aren’t going to have confidence for no reason.  That’s why you do the self improvement.  So you raise your external value and you feel internally that you now deserve the hottest and best women.

But you can’t do the external things and get results solely on that.  You also need the confidence.  Believe it or not, there are some good looking men who are insecure as fuck and have no confidence.  Girls think they’re cute at first but are soon weirded out and these guys get no action.  There are also average dudes who are confident as fuck.  They might need to talk to more women than a good looking guy, but they still get hot women when they put in the effort.

Combine the two by becoming good looking and confident as fuck and you’ll kill it in the game as a hot shot player.

That’s because confidence is sexy to women.  The more confident you are, the more swagger you have in the way you carry yourself.  You’ll carry yourself like a strong, confident, and happy man.  You’re ready to attack the world.  Yet you’re smooth and cool.

When you get to this point, and you also given have decent hygiene, you will have massive sex appeal to women.

Become a sexy motherfucker

Having sex appeal as a man is about becoming a sexy man.  That sounds corny on paper because we usually associate women with the word sexy.  But a man can be like that too and still be masculine.

Get your body right, your convo tight, be seen with other women, and grow your motherfucking confidence.  You can become the man that many women fantasize about.  Just become that man.

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