Stop Watching Porn: 5 Reasons Men should avoid Pornography

Stop Watching Porn: 5 Reasons to avoid Pornography

Stop Watching Porn

If you’re serious about becoming the best version of yourself then you need to stop watching porn.  Porn is going to hold you back in your dating life and your overall mental state.  If you’ve stopped watching porn already then you already know how beneficial it is to avoid it.

But if you’re one of the guys who watches porn and don’t have what you want in other areas of your life, you need to cut it out.

Porn is a modern epidemic

Porn is a modern epidemic that affects men across the world.  Throughout most of human history there wasn’t video.  Video is an incredible technology that has allowed us to communicate and share ideas like ever before.  But recording sex and turning it into a massive industry has fucked up the lives of many young men.

Some guy watch porn and then still go out and get girls.  It still negatively affects them and their state, but doesn’t hold them back completely.  Other guys become obsessed with porn and their fantasies.  They spend all their free time watching porn and feel like they can never do anything productive.  It affects young guys in particular, but many men suffer from porn addictions.

Watching porn, and especially beating off + orgasming to it, which 95% of viewers of porn do, is bad for a number of reasons.

Why you shouldn’t watch porn

You shouldn’t watch porn because it:

  1. numbs you to hot women
  2. raises unrealistic standards
  3. kills your imagination
  4. destroys your drive to get girls
  5. watching other men fuck women is for betas

1. Numbs you to hot women

pornography numbs you

When men watch porn, they’re not watching shit that grosses them out.  They’re going to exactly what they want on demand. Whether it’s big asses, big tits, certain nationality/race, threesomes, whatever.  With porn you can get exactly what you want when you want it.

Which sounds great.  But in real life it numbs men to attractive women.

When you can find exactly what you want in porn, real girls just don’t do it for you.  You beat off to your version of a 9 or 10 all the time.  But then you’ll have a hard time finding a girl like that in real life, let alone getting her.

2. Raises unrealistic standards

Watching porn takes the excitement out of sex and it gives you unrealistic standards.  When you beat off to the hottest girls you can find it fucks you up for real life.  Because those same girls are rare in the real world.  And when you do find them it’s not a guarantee that they’ll like you.  They’ll have to like you, then you need to fuck them.  And then you’ll need to do that consistently.

Which means you’ll need to have high sexual market value and have access to your ideal type of girl all the time.

While that may be possible for some men, it’s not possible for the vast majority of guys.  It’s good to have high standards.  But watching porn raises your standards too high for a certain look.  Which will lead to disappointment in real life because you won’t be able to find the girls that often like you do in porn.

3. Kills your imagination

wife hates sex

Watching porn kills your imagination.  Part of the fun in going after girls is the build up.  It’s imagining getting laid and fucking them.  And then going out and doing that.   Your brain gets to imagine her naked, her body, and the sex you’re going to have.

When you watch porn you kill that imagination.  Your brain doesn’t get to put the pieces together.  And that’s why most guys feel like shit after watching porn versus just masturbating to their own thoughts or having sex with a girl.

It’s fun for you to think about and fantasize about sex.  But watching porn takes that experience away from you.  You’re just feeding your brain with videos of other people fucking, and fake fucking at that.

There’s something about numbing yourself and killing your imagination that takes a mental and spiritual toll on your brain.

4. Destroys your drive to get girls

You shouldn’t watch porn because it destroys your drive to get girls.  Having exactly what on demand is easy and fun.  But then once you cum, you’re tired and drained.  After sex you’re still tired, but you also have a positive energy about you.  Because you  feel good that were able to have sex.  Nature intended for this.

You don’t get that same feeling after watching porn.  You feel like you cheaped yourself out of the real thing.  And that you just wasted your sexual energy.

Instead your drive to go meet and fuck new girls is hacked away.  It’s hard to go on a date with that 7.5 or 8 when you just spent an hour beating off to a 10.

5. Watching other men fuck women is for betas

porn, unhappy man looking at phone

Watching other guys fuck women is for chumps.  You should be going out and sleeping with women yourself.  There’s a reason you feel like shit after watching porn.  Or at least most guys do.  With the exception of religious guys, the majority of guys that feel like shit after watching porn feel like it for a legit reason.

And that’s because they know they should be going out and try to make that happen for real.

It’s in your instincts to go out and try and sleep with attractive women.  Nothing wrong with it.  But when you decide to beat off to porn, you’re selling yourself short.  Deep down, your brain knows it’s not the real thing.  You saw another man get it in while you were on the sidelines.  It’s a shitty feeling.

Do you think of the Rock, James Bond, or whoever your favorite alpha role model is a guy whose going to masturbate to porn?  Hell no.

As a grown man you should be able to attract a decent looking woman to have sexual relations with.  When you don’t do that and choose to watch porn, you’ll get mad at yourself for not really living life.  At least I would.

Masturbate, but don’t watch porn

If you’re going to masturbate then at least do it without watching porn.  This way you’re making your brain work to create a scenario.   While not as good as real sex, it gives your brain the ability to exercise your sexuality without it begin spoon fed to you.  And you don’t need to watch another man plow through what you wish you were.

Masturbating can be good to train yourself to last longer.  I recommend doing it at the end of the day before you go to sleep.  It’s better to sleep with real women, but it’s still much better to masturbate without porn than with it.

Or you can try the opposite and do nofap. This is where you transmute your sexual energy by not beating off or having any type of orgasm. The extra energy is crazy. And if you have the discipline then you can use that to focus on your purpose.

Sleep with girls in real life

I’m not here to bash all the guys watching porn.  I did it myself when I was a teenager.  It was addicting as fuck.  But as soon as I stopped watching porn, I had way more ambition to do other things.  I was able to meet girls in real life and actually enjoy having a sex life.  Having a social life and getting out in the world became way easier.  And I was able to get the experience to learn how to fuck a girl correctly in real life, not by trying imitate a pornstar.

It also just made my overall mental health way better.  Stop watching porn and start living in the real world.

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