Take the Pussy off the Pedestal

Take the Pussy off the Pedestal

pussy on pedestal

It’s important to take the pussy off the pedestal.

Putting women on a pedestal will get you

  1. Less women
  2. More frustration
  3. Cause more problems with your friends and family
  4. Hurt your career and money making abilities

Guys who’ve put women on the pedestal have gone to extremes.

The most extreme are incels killing people because they can’t get laid and pedestalize women so much.

A more “mild” example is getting married.

The modern man is trained to put a ring on a finger of a women and give her the power to take half of his net worth.

All in the name of love.

That’s putting pussy on a pedestal in the most obvious way.

And too many men pay for their idolization of women or a particular women.

Never good to put women on a pedestal

Whether it’s general pedestalization or oneitis, it’s never good for the man doing it.

Even with less extreme examples, it’s still the wrong move.

Millions of men lose out on spending time with family or their bros because they put a woman on a pedestal and ignored other people in their life.

All in the pursuit of some ass they never got or spent too much effort on.

I’m not saying don’t have beautiful women in your life.

But I am saying never value a girl or females in general so much that you let it affect other areas of your life.

And most guys I’ve met in my life do just that.

They miss put on a successful career, business, or other achievement because they value pussy too much.

How to take the pussy off the pedestal

It’s ironic that if you put pussy on the pedestal, you get less of it.

So how do you take the pussy off the pedestal?

Attention 

curing oneitis

It all comes down to attention.

You pedestalize women because you put your attention on them.

Women love attention.

But they don’t love when you actually give too much of it to them.

You think about them too much.

To summarize, you pedestalize because you fantasize.

If you spend all your time fantasizing about a girl or a bunch of girls, you’re going to pedestalize them.

There’s no other way around it.

If you think about something, you’ll value it more.

If you think about it less, you’ll value it less.

Now, you don’t want to put no value in women.

I have women in my life I get value from and I put some effort into meeting, talking, fucking, dancing, and enjoying their feminine energy.

But I place more value in myself and my own goals.

Change your focus

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If you control your focus, your attention, then you control your life.

If you focus on women a little bit, and do a bunch of other things that will inadvertently get you more women, then you’ll get a ton of women.

But if you just think about women all day, then you won’t get very many women.

So you need to change your focus.

You need to set your priorities straight.

It’s fine to have a pedestal.

Just don’t put women on it.

Put yourself on the pedestal.

Business

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Your business, tied to your financial independence, should be your number 1 priority in life.

Create a purpose and build a business around it.

Work on your business everyday.

Grind for 2 or 3 years to grow it, and then maintain and continue to grow it afterwards.

Putting your business on a pedestal will bring you wealth and help you to get rich.

This will help you with your overall lifestyle.

More wealth will erase debt, improve your living conditions, help your family, and realty reduce your stress.

I’ve never regretted any of the money I’ve made.

Plus, having more money will only raise your sexual market value and increase your dating options.

Hobbies

boxing

Getting a hobby or two is a great way to learn a new skill that will benefit you.

I recommend salsa dancing, martial arts like boxing or bjj, or lifting weights.

Doing just one or two of these in your spare time will do massive things.

Salsa dancing is fun as fuck and will get you women in a very direct way.

Martial arts will improve your confidence and help you indirectly.

Lifting weights will improve your confidence and help you directly by making you more attractive.

Focusing on a hobby gives your mind something to think about.

You should be spending most of your day working on and obsessing with your business.

In your moments of distraction, fantasize about getting the dance move down, nailing the left hook, or hitting a new PR in the gym.

Save the fantasizing about women for when you’re actually with one and getting laid on the first date.

Or when you’re working on lasting longer through masturbation with a cause.

Control your thoughts

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Controlling what you think about is extremely, extremely, extremely important.

It will determine how you act… and therefore the results of your life.

Putting women on a pedestal is a big deal.

And it’s a big thing to avoid.

Stop fantasizing about women.

Work on your business.

Stay fit and have a great body.

Watch as you become the man women fantasize about.

You’re the prize

conor's self belief

You want women to put you on the pedestal.

And it’s a great feeling to have women adore you.

To have them deep throat your cock, make amazing meals, and give you a massage after a long day.

But you’ll never get that treatment if you put the on a pedestal.

That’s not the way the world works.

You have to put yourself on the pedestal.  Put your goals on a pedestal.

Become a producer, a guy who gets shit done.

Then you’ll be the one on the pedestal.

Trust me, that’s the position you want to be in.

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