July 14

Act like the Man you want to be Treated as


Act like the Man you want to be Treated as

Act like the man you want to be treated as and nothing less.  When you act like less you get less.  If you aren’t getting the treatment you want, it’s because you’re allowing yourself to be treated in a way that’s out of line with what you think you deserve.

But thinking you deserve something isn’t enough to get it.  By itself that’s just entitlement.  However, the desire to get something, to be treated better, to aspire to something greater, is the beginning.  If you want to be treated differently, then you can demand that of the universe by changing the way you act.

Don’t act like a man who gets the results you don’t want.

Act like a confident man.  Act like people want to be around you.  Become the man that people respect.  Imagine yourself as the man that people want to talk to or impress or just be around.

Act strong.  Be strong.  Act confident.  Be confident.  Act like people respect you.  And people will respect you.

If you aren’t being treated as the man you want to be, then the problem is that you have bad programming.  You’ve been acting in a certain way and people have been responding to that.  If you take responsibility then you can change the way you carry yourself and therefore people will view you differently.  Responsibility is the ability to choose our response.  When you make a decision to change, and you stay committed to that decision, you now become the man you want to be.

Want a high quality relationship?

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Act like a high quality man.  Don’t deal with low quality women.  Refuse to give attention to women who don’t respect you.  When you stop entertaining yourself with women just because they look good, you’ll realize there are plenty of other beautiful women who will treat you as you want.  There may be a period of time where you’re single for a while.  However, by raising your standards of the people you allow into your life, you’ll soon draw to yourself the people that are for you.

By acting like the man you want to be treated as, women will soon treat you as that man.

If you want to be a player, then act like a player.  By acting like a man who gets a lot of women, women will treat you like you get a lot of women.

Act like the man who already has his dream woman

If you want a loving, loyal, and high quality woman in your life, act like the man who has that type of woman.

By acting like a man who has a high quality woman in his life, you’ll soon draw to yourself that exact kind of woman.  Act like you’re the man your woman is obsessed with.  Imagine you’re the man she desires.  Think to yourself “I’m so grateful to have a woman who loves me, appreciates me, and is so happy to be with a real motherfucking man”.

If you’re single and don’t have a high quality woman in your life, imagine how a woman like that would make you feel.

Would she make you feel strong or masculine?  Would you be happy to have a beautiful woman on your arm?  Imagine those good feelings.  And now imagine having those feelings all by yourself.  Be strong, masculine, and be confident and feel great all on your own.  You can feel like this with practice.  You can delude yourself into feeling this way, and then actually feel this way.

By doing so, you’ll have the qualities you think the woman could have gave you.  In reality, high quality women are attracted to men who are already like this.  By acting like this type of man, you’ll become this type of man, and you’ll have an abundance of high quality women who will come into your life.

Want your clients to treat you well?

Act like a man who does well with his clients.  Be professional, deliver a great service, and take full responsibility for your business.

Don’t want to deal with clients who disrespect you?  Then act like a man who wouldn’t, don’t work with those people who don’t treat you as they should.

Understanding respect

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People respect those who respect themselves

Value your time.

Treat yourself well.

If you want to be a man whose respected, you must treat yourself with respect.  If you just develop a strong self respect, then your life will change.

You don’t need to constantly think about others or who to impress them.  This will backfire.  Instead just respect yourself.

Fake it until you make it works.  If you act in a certain way, eventually you will become that.  Many people don’t want to change the way the  act because they fear by “inauthentic” to themselves.

But you as “yourself” is just a combination of memory, thought, and emotion.  Your personality is based upon a set of circumstances and how you began to act in similar ways to those circumstances.  Essentially, who you think you are is simply a trained series of habits.  You into the habit of acting a certain way, now you think that that’s “you”.  That’s not you, that’s just a learned habit.

You can be whatever you want to be

Every baby has a clean slate.  As the begin to grow, the outside world gives each baby different circumstances, with different parents, with different expectations, with different things to enforce behaviors or good or bad.  By the time you’re 18 or 19, you think you have a personality.  You think you’re cool, or you’re lame, or you’re funny, or you’re not funny.  But all fo these things are just memorized patterns.  If you like the position you have in life that’s great.

But if you want to be treated better, with more respect, or just have a different life in some way or another, then you can make the change.  This takes effort.  To give yourself a new program as an adult takes some repetition.  By acting like the man you want to be treated as, eventually you will memorize these new habits and become this man.

A lesson from the master of success

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In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill tells the reader:

Conduct yourself just as you would if you were already in possession of the material thing which you are demanding

And he also says:

You may benefit, by passing on to your subconscious mind, any desire that you wish translated into its physical or monetary equivalent, in a state of expectancy or belief that the transmutation will take place.

While Napoleon Hill is using money as the primary example, this applies directly to all other things in life as well.  Including the way people treat you.  Imagine yourself being treated well by people.  Take 5 minutes to imagine yourself waking up, going to work, talking with clients that treat you with great respect, then coming home to a wife or girlfriend that does the same.  Or having a date or interaction with a woman that likes you walking by.  Imagine your friends treating you with respect.  If you  have kids, imagine them looking to you for guidance.

The farther away this is from your reality, the longer and more consistently it will take for this image to be accepted by your subconscious mind  as real.  But after repeating this exercise in your head, your belief will start to form.  And then your belief will transform into faith.  By believing you are treated the way you want to be treated, your subconscious mind will work to take care of these things for you.

Reprogram yourself to be the Man you Desire to be

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You’ll begin to act in the way that’s necessary for you to be treated with respect.

Your subconscious mind is extremely powerful.  It takes whatever you give it and runs with it.  The problem is that most of us have been given low quality programs and have accepted those programs over the course of our lives.  Now it’s time to change that.  It’s time to reverse the bad programming.  You can program yourself for success, for monetary gain, or for simply being treated as the man you want to be.

But it won’t “just happen’.  You don’t just deserve it.  You must become the man that deserves it.  By acting like the man you want to be treated as, you’ll soon become that man.


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2 years ago

Can you please write an article about how to become a bad boy

2 years ago

Yoouw mate… Nice work. Been reading your work from across the world. Nuff love from Kenya great tips too. Was worrying why you started putting up videos instead of articles. Continue with the same spirit

2 years ago

my girl and i have been going through some stuff , i had girl on my instagram that i used too talk to and my girl found out i used to talk to her and wanted me to block her but she had one of my friends she used to talk to on her instagram but i didnt really care until she brought my friend up to me. so i told her to block him if i gotta block her and she got really mad about it then i blocked her and she blocked him after a big thing about… Read more »

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2 years ago

makes sense cause she did it like 2 weeks before we started dated and she asked me am i talking to other girls and i said nah and she said me neither but she really was but thanks for the advice lol

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