April 13

She Blocked me on Everything… What Should I do?

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She Blocked me on Everything… What Should I do?

She blocked me on everything and now I can’t get ahold of her!  Oh no!

Calm down, calm down.  Girls get emotional, no need for you to react to her being emotional with you being even more emotional.  It might catch you of surprise if she blocks you on everything.  She blocked your number, on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, you name it.  You can’t see her profile, you can’t call her, text her, nothing.

If you’ve never had a girl block you before then this may be new territory.  First step is to realize it’s not a big deal.  You can’t control other people.  She wants to block you then fine, she blocks you.  Now you need to carry on with your life.  You want some extra insight and don’t want to worry about why she blocked me on everything?  Alright, it’s simple if you think about it.

Why did she block me?

Women are emotional.  Men have emotions, but generally the woman is more in her feelings. And if she’s blocking you, this is likely the case.  It’s either because:

  1. You acted too needy
  2. She was mad, you were being a man

Basically you either acted too weak, and she got turned off and grossed out by you.  Or she got mad / upset, unhappy because you were strong and either stood up to her in a fight or you’re just living your life.

In the first case it’s your fault for being weak.  In the second case, don’t worry at all. She will for sure unblock you at some point and she will definitely miss you.

If she blocked you because you were acting too weak and desperate, then you just need to move on.  Forget about her, it’s done.

But if she was mad or flustered because you weren’t giving into demands, or you’re living your life and she’s mad about it, then this block is just temporary.

What should I do after she blocked me?

My girlfriend texts back with one word answers

There’s nothing you can do.  Except keep on living your life.

This is why having a purpose is so important.  You need to have something that you base your life around that’s bigger than her.  I’m assuming this isn’t your wife or a girlfriend.  If that’s the case, you should reconsider if that should be your woman.   In fact if she’s your girlfriend and she blocks you on everything I’d consider that a break up.

And even if that’s the case, you can’t do anything with her except move on.

So assuming this is some girl you’re dating that you’re not in a relationship with, or even an ex girlfriend, forget about her.

“She blocked me on everything” shouldn’t be a thought that worries you.  You shouldn’t be tossing and turning in your bed over a woman life this.  She doesn’t want to talk to you.   It could be you acted weak.  Alright well learn form your mistakes and move on.

It could be because she saw you post on social media and she got butthurt that you two aren’t together.  In that case you definitely shouldn’t worry about her blocking you. Because she’s going to regret that later.  It will only be so long before she misses you.

In either case, you either messed up and move on, or she messed up and you move on.

Will she ever unblock me?

If you acted too needy, she could keep you blocked forever, or possibly unblock you in the future.  Chances are she will just to peek at your social media and see how you’re doing.  If you’re doing worse or the same she’ll be happy with her original decision.  And if you’re rising up and looks like you’re living life, she might feel like she missed out.

If she blocked you because she was mad at you for being a man, aka not giving in to her demands and you’re living your life, then she will definitely unblock you in the future.   She may text you directly, or may look at your social media.  In fact she for sure will unblock you, even if for a few minutes to look at your social media and then  block you again.

Chances are she’ll creep and see if you’ve improved

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So while you may never see her profile, she will for sure check your Instagram or other social media out.  Even though you might be thinking “but she blocked me on everything are you sure?”  Yes, she still has feelings for you if she blocked you out of her being emotional.  She will for sure stalk your profile.  Whether she texts you or not depends on how much she missed you.  But she will definitely unblock you at some point in the future.

While she may  be mad now, that anger will turn to regret later.   What comes up must come down.  This is a law of the universe.  That’s why women always experience a full range of emotions.  When you get super emotional about a woman, you become ungrounded and also must experience really good and really bad feelings.

If you can stay centered and stay calm, and avoid hitting her up, whether she unblocks you or not, you’ll give yourself the best chance to move on.

Should I get ahold of her in some other way?

I can get numbers from cold approach but then get flaked on

No, the goal for you is to move on.  If a girl doesn’t want to be in your life, you let her go.  That’s the only option you have.  “what but she blocked me on everything so shouldn’t I try harder?” Hell no.  She blocked you so the best thing is to move on.  It’s the only option you have.  Hitting her up with a different phone number, through a friend, waiting for her outside of her work, and anything else is all extremely beta behavior.

Even if you did any of the above, that’s not just desperate, it’s creepy.  It simply won’t work and she’ll be creeped out, even if she blocked you because she was mad at you (and therefore actually still cares about you).  And if she blocked you on everything because you were already being too needy, then continuing with needy behavior will only make it worse.

Let her miss you while you move on

She blocked you on everything so let her live her life.  It’s her loss.  If I was talking to a girl and she blocked me on everything then that would be her loss.  She wants to not hear from me or see my social media then cool.  I know a few weeks or months from now she’s going to be stalking me and will hit me up, but by then I’ll be long gone.  I’m not worried about a girl blocking me.  If she blocked me on everything or even just one thing she can go live her life.

I get variations of this from guys all the time:

  • “She blocked me without reason”
  • or “she blocked me on facebook but still talks to me”
  • or “she blocked me on snapchat”
  • and even “she blocked me out of her life completely”

Whatever the case is, it’s not unique.  Women do this all the time.

The problem some guys have is they get so attached.  They get so offended if a girl is blocking them.

Listen man, she did you a favor.  Now you don’t have to worry about talking to her or looking at her profile on social media.  You can move on easier without distraction.  If she was really a girl that you were going to be with in a healthy way, then it wouldn’t have gotten to the point where she’s blocking you.

You must move on

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If a girl blocks you on everything then you just need to keep it stepping.  Stop overanalyzing the reasons she blocked you.  You were either acting weak or you were being strong + authentic and she was having trouble getting over you.

Hopefully it wasn’t because you were weak.  Hopefully it was because you were living your life and she was the one being immature.

But regardless, whether you acted weak and she was annoyed or you were just living life and she got butthurt, this best move is to move on.  It’s the only logical move.  No matter what.  If she blocks you you win.  Now you can move on easier.  Anything other than moving on from a woman who blocked you is wasted mental energy.  Value your thoughts.  Work on your purpose, date other women.

When you work on your purpose and improve your life, any woman who blocked you will regret it.


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Michael Hamberger
Michael Hamberger
1 year ago

This is the most helpful article I’ve ever read, thank you.

Sammie
Sammie
1 year ago

My girlfriend (or I assume ex girlfriend now) has blocked me on everything.. so my question is, do I go no contact and hope she unblocks me eventually and use that as an opportunity or do I focus on improving myself and then be proactive to contact her when the time is right? Here is a brief backstory: We’ve been on and off for a year and recently after an argument, I shut down and became distant as a form of self-preservation (habit learned from childhood). For the next few days, she reached out a lot but conversations were dry.… Read more »

Cole
Cole
1 year ago

Yeah, after reading that ole girl is definitely a done deal. Moving on, deuces

S.S
S.S
1 year ago

So she blocked me from everywhere because I acted weak ; annoyed her but I did the creepy thing and texted her from My mother’s phone ; sisters phone ; thousand times after the day she blocked me, I even cried sending her a voice note, emailed her. She didn’t even reply ; even after seeing and listening to those recordings There was a time she said ; she’ll choose me over everything, I wonder if even she meant half of it. This article told me where I went wrong but you know when emotions get over you ; you… Read more »

Alex
Alex
Reply to  S.S
1 year ago

Sorry to hear that mate.

Alex
Alex
1 year ago

So I got blocked. Was talking to a girl at work for about a month, asking questions, trying to develop connection. Added her on Facebook then the next day I asked her out for a meal. She said no and then blocked me on Facebook. I guess she’s worried I would comment something bad or look through her profile? I don’t think I was needy unless that came across in my body language.

Alex
Alex
Reply to  Rebellious Development
1 year ago

A small amount of interest looking back on it. She’s leaving in September so yeah I wouldn’t have tried to get with her otherwise. I’m just gonna ignore her now and move on.

Sam Turner
Sam Turner
1 year ago

My long distance girlfriend blocked me about 5 days ago after a fight and I feel like I should apologize from another account and at the end of the apology “I’ll give you as much time as you need” and other things, and then I’ll let it be and wait on her to text me again, should I? I feel like there’s no reason why I shouldn’t apologize and leave it there, because I was in the wrong and was mean.

Verity
Verity
Reply to  Sam Turner
1 year ago

I’d say if you feel you were wrong always try and reach out…

Don
Don
1 year ago

What if you got into a crazy argument where neighbors called and both got charged? We both can’t see or talk with each other because of the court conditions. We’ve dated for 4 years. I tried contacting her but have been blocked everywhere. We lived together and she left all her property and doesn’t care about it it seems. It’s been 3 months and I’m dying.

Don
Don
Reply to  Rebellious Development
1 year ago

Thanks I appreciate it. Not out of the woods yet. Still got court in 2 weeks that is stressing me out. Heard hers is a month later than mine. My first charge in my life but I agree dodged a bullet. Hopefully I get out of this with no record as I didn’t do anything to warrant a charge but doesn’t matter now as I have to deal with it.

Megan
Megan
1 year ago

My ex gf blocked me on everything what should I do. I want to try and fix its but I can’t and she even said I’m dead to her

Alexandre
Alexandre
1 year ago

I was dating my ex GF for 4 months. We fell deep in love and were planning to live together by the end of 2020. Things got complicated between us in her birthday party (she wanted me to stay the night @ her place that day, but I went home near midnight cuz I had to wake up early to go to work the day after). She got extremely pissed off… The next weekend I couldn’t see her cause I had COVID symptoms and told her – at first she understood and agreed with my decision, but a few days… Read more »

Green
Green
11 months ago

This is best article ever in relationships issues….thanks

Ay KAI
Ay KAI
9 months ago

My ex-girlfriend and I dated for a couple weeks and I loved every second of it. After a couple of weeks it started to get kinda toxic but we didn´t ignore each other until she ghosted me for like 3 days. Then I asked her if she wanted to call and she said ´when i´m not busy´ so I blocked her on everything. A couple weeks later I hit her up but our convos were really dry. Now she has me blocked on everything after I started to message her a little to much. I miss that girl so much… Read more »

Jimmie
Jimmie
8 months ago

This is a brilliant article. My girlfriend (now ex) and I were having a conversation on Facebook Messenger. The conversation was going well and all of a sudden we had a disagreement. But we didn’t argue as such and I kept my cool. I was the last one to reply and she ignored my text and remained online. So I also kept quiet for a while, went offline for about several hours to work on my projects. When I came back online the next day, I discovered that I was blocked. A few days later she blocked me on WhatsApp.… Read more »

Jeff
Jeff
7 months ago

Thanks for this man. It helped. She blocked me, i liked her a lot, but she blocked me because of me being myself. Like you said I wasn’t needy. I did become weak though after the block and reached out through email , she replied explained why she blocked me, and then i apologized for my lack of communication in the relationship but she blocked me there too before I could finish. Oh well. This article helped give me closure. Thanks mate.

Arwin69
Arwin69
7 months ago

I am a girl, and I blocked the guy that I really liked and felt like the ‘relationship’ wasn’t really going anywhere. My mood was highly dependent on how he communicated with he. He said he didn’t want a relationship and we usually just had sex. That’s why I blocked him in the middle of a conversation… Ooops

Arwin69
Arwin69
Reply to  Rebellious Development
7 months ago

haha yes I certainly do that… Luckily, I don’t really have social media platforms anymore. and I also blocked him on Snapchat. Anyhow, it was also me and the way I have an unhealthy perspective on relationships.

Kaushikchangmai
Kaushikchangmai
7 months ago

Can i get some sessions in zoom. I have no one to look for. 7 yrs mean her my everything. And all of a sudden this happen.

Kabila
Kabila
7 months ago

I dated someone and she blocked me tried to make things right but only ,made it worse she called me obsessed and deranged i regret that and she has blocked me on everything and i have lost my respect to her cause tried to win her back

Patric
Patric
6 months ago

Hell yeah man. Good, practical and logical advice… that I fuckin drop the ball and actually did all that BS the past couple of days. It’s crazy. Never been that weak and vulnerable over a chick I didn’t even wanna actually date. It started out as surprisingly great sexual experiences with a girl I thought was not that game. I dated down to build up my confidence after my divorce. Never wanted a relationship. But I let my guard down and here we are. I really shocked myself with the chase. Past few weeks I’ve looked into relationship issues, personal… Read more »

Kostas Lyssikatos
Kostas Lyssikatos
6 months ago

Hey Rebel, I recently discovered your work and I’m impressed. I got blocked on instagram by a girl I dated because I stood up to her and put her in her place. I pretty much did everything right when pursuing her and she reciprocated with super high interest. This girl is 7 years older than me (Her 32, me 25), she lives an hour and a half away, and she can be a very emotional person. Making dates with her was easy. She literally made herself available the whole week each time I asked her out. She would always constantly… Read more »

Kostas Lyssikatos
Kostas Lyssikatos
Reply to  Rebellious Development
6 months ago

Thank you for your feedback, this helped so much!

Elijah
Elijah
5 months ago

Man this happened to me as well. My story is that in our relationship I pretty mych always do what I want and what I wish. Not to say I don’t do what she wants I just always go with my own decisions. I buy her nice clothes, send flowers, chocolates lunch all in very unique ways. Like if I buy her a new jacket it’ll have flower petals in the pockets with money and a note about her bussin it open later. I’m a guy who knows how to romance not in a corny way and I have a… Read more »

Last edited 5 months ago by Elijah
Jonathon
Jonathon
3 months ago

Hello

Jonathon
Jonathon
3 months ago

So I was talking to this girl for 2 weeks, she was moving very fast, she was about 40 I’m 31. She started holding my hand in public, calling me babe. And at first I thought it was weird moving so fast but I never said anything. We were cuddling, she told her family about me. All this happened in two weeks. She constantly talked about guys. And I must admit it made me a little jealous. She also told me she had a sexual relationship with a friend of mine. They were sex buddies. So that up front was… Read more »

OkJazz
OkJazz
2 months ago

Awesome lesson, man. Thank you for this article, I see what you mean!

Shah
Shah
1 month ago

What is wrong in acting needy/weak dude if I need her she should help me out. What is the logic or Psychology behind blocking someone just because that person is weak?

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