She Blocked me on Everything… What Should I do?

She Blocked me on Everything… What Should I do?

She blocked me on everything and now I can’t get ahold of her!  Oh no!

Calm down, calm down.  Girls get emotional, no need for you to react to her being emotional with you being even more emotional.  It might catch you of surprise if she blocks you on everything.  She blocked your number, on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, you name it.  You can’t see her profile, you can’t call her, text her, nothing.

If you’ve never had a girl block you before then this may be new territory.  First step is to realize it’s not a big deal.  You can’t control other people.  She wants to block you then fine, she blocks you.  Now you need to carry on with your life.  You want some extra insight and don’t want to worry about why she blocked me on everything?  Alright, it’s simple if you think about it.

Why did she block me?

Women are emotional.  Men have emotions, but generally the woman is more in her feelings. And if she’s blocking you, this is likely the case.  It’s either because:

  1. You acted too needy
  2. She was mad, you were being a man

Basically you either acted too weak, and she got turned off and grossed out by you.  Or she got mad / upset, unhappy because you were strong and either stood up to her in a fight or you’re just living your life.

In the first case it’s your fault for being weak.  In the second case, don’t worry at all. She will for sure unblock you at some point and she will definitely miss you.

If she blocked you because you were acting too weak and desperate, then you just need to move on.  Forget about her, it’s done.

But if she was mad or flustered because you weren’t giving into demands, or you’re living your life and she’s mad about it, then this block is just temporary.

What should I do after she blocked me?

My girlfriend texts back with one word answers

There’s nothing you can do.  Except keep on living your life.

This is why having a purpose is so important.  You need to have something that you base your life around that’s bigger than her.  I’m assuming this isn’t your wife or a girlfriend.  If that’s the case, you should reconsider if that should be your woman.   In fact if she’s your girlfriend and she blocks you on everything I’d consider that a break up.

And even if that’s the case, you can’t do anything with her except move on.

So assuming this is some girl you’re dating that you’re not in a relationship with, or even an ex girlfriend, forget about her.

“She blocked me on everything” shouldn’t be a thought that worries you.  You shouldn’t be tossing and turning in your bed over a woman life this.  She doesn’t want to talk to you.   It could be you acted weak.  Alright well learn form your mistakes and move on.

It could be because she saw you post on social media and she got butthurt that you two aren’t together.  In that case you definitely shouldn’t worry about her blocking you. Because she’s going to regret that later.  It will only be so long before she misses you.

In either case, you either messed up and move on, or she messed up and you move on.

Will she ever unblock me?

If you acted too needy, she could keep you blocked forever, or possibly unblock you in the future.  Chances are she will just to peek at your social media and see how you’re doing.  If you’re doing worse or the same she’ll be happy with her original decision.  And if you’re rising up and looks like you’re living life, she might feel like she missed out.

If she blocked you because she was mad at you for being a man, aka not giving in to her demands and you’re living your life, then she will definitely unblock you in the future.   She may text you directly, or may look at your social media.  In fact she for sure will unblock you, even if for a few minutes to look at your social media and then  block you again.

Chances are she’ll creep and see if you’ve improved

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So while you may never see her profile, she will for sure check your Instagram or other social media out.  Even though you might be thinking “but she blocked me on everything are you sure?”  Yes, she still has feelings for you if she blocked you out of her being emotional.  She will for sure stalk your profile.  Whether she texts you or not depends on how much she missed you.  But she will definitely unblock you at some point in the future.

While she may  be mad now, that anger will turn to regret later.   What comes up must come down.  This is a law of the universe.  That’s why women always experience a full range of emotions.  When you get super emotional about a woman, you become ungrounded and also must experience really good and really bad feelings.

If you can stay centered and stay calm, and avoid hitting her up, whether she unblocks you or not, you’ll give yourself the best chance to move on.

Should I get ahold of her in some other way?

I can get numbers from cold approach but then get flaked on

No, the goal for you is to move on.  If a girl doesn’t want to be in your life, you let her go.  That’s the only option you have.  “what but she blocked me on everything so shouldn’t I try harder?” Hell no.  She blocked you so the best thing is to move on.  It’s the only option you have.  Hitting her up with a different phone number, through a friend, waiting for her outside of her work, and anything else is all extremely beta behavior.

Even if you did any of the above, that’s not just desperate, it’s creepy.  It simply won’t work and she’ll be creeped out, even if she blocked you because she was mad at you (and therefore actually still cares about you).  And if she blocked you on everything because you were already being too needy, then continuing with needy behavior will only make it worse.

Let her miss you while you move on

She blocked you on everything so let her live her life.  It’s her loss.  If I was talking to a girl and she blocked me on everything then that would be her loss.  She wants to not here from me or see my social media then cool.  I know a few weeks or months from now she’s going to be stalking me and will hit me up, but by then I’ll be long gone.  I’m not worried about a girl blocking me.  If she blocked me on everything or even just one thing she can go live her life.

The problem some guys have is they get so attached.  They get so offended if a girl is blocking them.  Listen man, she did you a favor.  Now you don’t have to worry about talking to her or looking at her profile on social media.  You can move on easier without distraction.  If she was really a girl that you were going to be with in a healthy way, then it wouldn’t have gotten to the point where she’s blocking you.

You must move on

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If a girl blocks you on everything then you just need to keep it stepping.  Hopefully it wasn’t because you were weak.  Hopefully it was because you were living your life and she was the one being immature.  But regardless, whether you acted weak and she was annoyed or you were just living life and she got butthurt, this best move is to move on.  It’s the only logical move.  Anything is wasted mental energy.  Value your thoughts.  Work on your purpose, date other women.

When you work on your purpose and improve your life, any woman who blocked you will regret it.

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Michael Hamberger
Michael Hamberger
2 months ago

This is the most helpful article I’ve ever read, thank you.

Sammie
Sammie
1 month ago

My girlfriend (or I assume ex girlfriend now) has blocked me on everything.. so my question is, do I go no contact and hope she unblocks me eventually and use that as an opportunity or do I focus on improving myself and then be proactive to contact her when the time is right? Here is a brief backstory: We’ve been on and off for a year and recently after an argument, I shut down and became distant as a form of self-preservation (habit learned from childhood). For the next few days, she reached out a lot but conversations were dry.… Read more »

Cole
Cole
1 month ago

Yeah, after reading that ole girl is definitely a done deal. Moving on, deuces

S.S
S.S
26 days ago

So she blocked me from everywhere because I acted weak ; annoyed her but I did the creepy thing and texted her from My mother’s phone ; sisters phone ; thousand times after the day she blocked me, I even cried sending her a voice note, emailed her. She didn’t even reply ; even after seeing and listening to those recordings There was a time she said ; she’ll choose me over everything, I wonder if even she meant half of it. This article told me where I went wrong but you know when emotions get over you ; you… Read more »

Alex
Alex
Reply to  S.S
20 days ago

Sorry to hear that mate.

Alex
Alex
20 days ago

So I got blocked. Was talking to a girl at work for about a month, asking questions, trying to develop connection. Added her on Facebook then the next day I asked her out for a meal. She said no and then blocked me on Facebook. I guess she’s worried I would comment something bad or look through her profile? I don’t think I was needy unless that came across in my body language.

Alex
Alex
Reply to  Rebellious Development
19 days ago

A small amount of interest looking back on it. She’s leaving in September so yeah I wouldn’t have tried to get with her otherwise. I’m just gonna ignore her now and move on.

Sam Turner
Sam Turner
16 days ago

My long distance girlfriend blocked me about 5 days ago after a fight and I feel like I should apologize from another account and at the end of the apology “I’ll give you as much time as you need” and other things, and then I’ll let it be and wait on her to text me again, should I? I feel like there’s no reason why I shouldn’t apologize and leave it there, because I was in the wrong and was mean.

Verity
Verity
Reply to  Sam Turner
15 days ago

I’d say if you feel you were wrong always try and reach out…

Don
Don
10 days ago

What if you got into a crazy argument where neighbors called and both got charged? We both can’t see or talk with each other because of the court conditions. We’ve dated for 4 years. I tried contacting her but have been blocked everywhere. We lived together and she left all her property and doesn’t care about it it seems. It’s been 3 months and I’m dying.

Don
Don
Reply to  Rebellious Development
7 days ago

Thanks I appreciate it. Not out of the woods yet. Still got court in 2 weeks that is stressing me out. Heard hers is a month later than mine. My first charge in my life but I agree dodged a bullet. Hopefully I get out of this with no record as I didn’t do anything to warrant a charge but doesn’t matter now as I have to deal with it.

Megan
Megan
5 days ago

My ex gf blocked me on everything what should I do. I want to try and fix its but I can’t and she even said I’m dead to her

Alexandre
Alexandre
4 hours ago

I was dating my ex GF for 4 months. We fell deep in love and were planning to live together by the end of 2020. Things got complicated between us in her birthday party (she wanted me to stay the night @ her place that day, but I went home near midnight cuz I had to wake up early to go to work the day after). She got extremely pissed off… The next weekend I couldn’t see her cause I had COVID symptoms and told her – at first she understood and agreed with my decision, but a few days… Read more »

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