She Blocked me on Everything… What Should I do?
She blocked me on everything and now I can’t get ahold of her! Oh no!
Calm down, calm down. Girls get emotional, no need for you to react to her being emotional with you being even more emotional. It might catch you of surprise if she blocks you on everything. She blocked your number, on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, you name it. You can’t see her profile, you can’t call her, text her, nothing.
If you’ve never had a girl block you before then this may be new territory. First step is to realize it’s not a big deal. You can’t control other people. She wants to block you then fine, she blocks you. Now you need to carry on with your life. You want some extra insight and don’t want to worry about why she blocked me on everything? Alright, it’s simple if you think about it.
Why did she block me?
Women are emotional. Men have emotions, but generally the woman is more in her feelings. And if she’s blocking you, this is likely the case. It’s either because:
- You acted too needy
- She was mad, you were being a man
Basically you either acted too weak, and she got turned off and grossed out by you. Or she got mad / upset, unhappy because you were strong and either stood up to her in a fight or you’re just living your life.
In the first case it’s your fault for being weak. In the second case, don’t worry at all. She will for sure unblock you at some point and she will definitely miss you.
If she blocked you because you were acting too weak and desperate, then you just need to move on. Forget about her, it’s done.
But if she was mad or flustered because you weren’t giving into demands, or you’re living your life and she’s mad about it, then this block is just temporary.
What should I do after she blocked me?
There’s nothing you can do. Except keep on living your life.
This is why having a purpose is so important. You need to have something that you base your life around that’s bigger than her. I’m assuming this isn’t your wife or a girlfriend. If that’s the case, you should reconsider if that should be your woman. In fact if she’s your girlfriend and she blocks you on everything I’d consider that a break up.
And even if that’s the case, you can’t do anything with her except move on.
So assuming this is some girl you’re dating that you’re not in a relationship with, or even an ex girlfriend, forget about her.
“She blocked me on everything” shouldn’t be a thought that worries you. You shouldn’t be tossing and turning in your bed over a woman life this. She doesn’t want to talk to you. It could be you acted weak. Alright well learn form your mistakes and move on.
It could be because she saw you post on social media and she got butthurt that you two aren’t together. In that case you definitely shouldn’t worry about her blocking you. Because she’s going to regret that later. It will only be so long before she misses you.
In either case, you either messed up and move on, or she messed up and you move on.
Will she ever unblock me?
If you acted too needy, she could keep you blocked forever, or possibly unblock you in the future. Chances are she will just to peek at your social media and see how you’re doing. If you’re doing worse or the same she’ll be happy with her original decision. And if you’re rising up and looks like you’re living life, she might feel like she missed out.
If she blocked you because she was mad at you for being a man, aka not giving in to her demands and you’re living your life, then she will definitely unblock you in the future. She may text you directly, or may look at your social media. In fact she for sure will unblock you, even if for a few minutes to look at your social media and then block you again.
Chances are she’ll creep and see if you’ve improved
So while you may never see her profile, she will for sure check your Instagram or other social media out. Even though you might be thinking “but she blocked me on everything are you sure?” Yes, she still has feelings for you if she blocked you out of her being emotional. She will for sure stalk your profile. Whether she texts you or not depends on how much she missed you. But she will definitely unblock you at some point in the future.
While she may be mad now, that anger will turn to regret later. What comes up must come down. This is a law of the universe. That’s why women always experience a full range of emotions. When you get super emotional about a woman, you become ungrounded and also must experience really good and really bad feelings.
If you can stay centered and stay calm, and avoid hitting her up, whether she unblocks you or not, you’ll give yourself the best chance to move on.
Should I get ahold of her in some other way?
No, the goal for you is to move on. If a girl doesn’t want to be in your life, you let her go. That’s the only option you have. “what but she blocked me on everything so shouldn’t I try harder?” Hell no. She blocked you so the best thing is to move on. It’s the only option you have. Hitting her up with a different phone number, through a friend, waiting for her outside of her work, and anything else is all extremely beta behavior.
Even if you did any of the above, that’s not just desperate, it’s creepy. It simply won’t work and she’ll be creeped out, even if she blocked you because she was mad at you (and therefore actually still cares about you). And if she blocked you on everything because you were already being too needy, then continuing with needy behavior will only make it worse.
Let her miss you while you move on
She blocked you on everything so let her live her life. It’s her loss. If I was talking to a girl and she blocked me on everything then that would be her loss. She wants to not hear from me or see my social media then cool. I know a few weeks or months from now she’s going to be stalking me and will hit me up, but by then I’ll be long gone. I’m not worried about a girl blocking me. If she blocked me on everything or even just one thing she can go live her life.
I get variations of this from guys all the time:
- “She blocked me without reason”
- or “she blocked me on facebook but still talks to me”
- or “she blocked me on snapchat”
- and even “she blocked me out of her life completely”
Whatever the case is, it’s not unique. Women do this all the time.
The problem some guys have is they get so attached. They get so offended if a girl is blocking them.
Listen man, she did you a favor. Now you don’t have to worry about talking to her or looking at her profile on social media. You can move on easier without distraction. If she was really a girl that you were going to be with in a healthy way, then it wouldn’t have gotten to the point where she’s blocking you.
You must move on
If a girl blocks you on everything then you just need to keep it stepping. Stop overanalyzing the reasons she blocked you. You were either acting weak or you were being strong + authentic and she was having trouble getting over you.
Hopefully it wasn’t because you were weak. Hopefully it was because you were living your life and she was the one being immature.
But regardless, whether you acted weak and she was annoyed or you were just living life and she got butthurt, this best move is to move on. It’s the only logical move. No matter what. If she blocks you you win. Now you can move on easier. Anything other than moving on from a woman who blocked you is wasted mental energy. Value your thoughts. Work on your purpose, date other women.
When you work on your purpose and improve your life, any woman who blocked you will regret it.