The Matrix of Porn, Dating Apps, and Social Media
The Matrix of porn, dating apps, and social media is the chamber that many young men, and now even older men, are trapped in. This is why the modern man has lower testosterone than his father or grandfather did at the same age a generation and two ago.
This is why so many men have social anxiety and no drive to do anything. By constantly staring at a screen and getting a rush of dopamine, you receive the artificial version of what Nature is naturally pushing you to do. The back bone and edge you develop by talking to a woman in person is lost when you swipe on dating apps and beat off to porn.
In the past, due to a lack of porn, dating apps, and social media, teenage boys were forced to go talk to women. This small feat gave them a foundation of masculinity to go after real challenges in life. But with the virtual matrix capturing the attention of men, we now have a big problem on our hands.
Porn
I doubt there’s much else that needs to be said on porn. Porn is by far the worst of the offenders in this new virtual matrix. It’s what’s causing so many young men to be constantly drained. It sucks the energy out of them. That energy that would’ve been used to muster up the confidence to talk to the pretty girl and to develop socially. Guys who are masturbating constantly, especially to porn, are trapped in the matrix at the lowest level.
Matrix of Dating apps
Men are paying for apps or they’re dealing with unattractive or troubled women.
The algorithms are designed to keep you hooked. The algorithms on the dating apps like tinder show you the most attractive women first. Then you swipe right on them, which lowers your rating, so you never see the hot women. Once you’ve seen all the hot women, and you’re hoping for a match, the app puts you to the back of the list.
If there’s 5 people on tinder, 1 of them is a female, and the other 4 are males. It’s a lose lose situation. I’d much rather go to a bar that has a 4-1 ratio of men to women then be on the app. At least in person you can make a move.
On the apps, the chances the girl even sees your profile is slim. And then even if she matches with you, the chance she sees your first message is slim. Even if she sees it and responds, the chance she even sees your second message is slim. She’s being bombarded by guys who’d never have the guts to approach her in real life. Guys who never developed their manhood. But on the app, that doesn’t matter. Welcome to the matrix of fakery. Now you have guys who could actually do well with women in real life if they grew some balls think that women hate them because they get no results on tinder. These dating apps are keeping you in a dating a matrix that’s false.
Social Media and Advertising
How much time does the average person spend on social media a day? In the US it’s almost 3 hours. That’s insane. Even if women are spending more time then men, even spending 2 hours or 1 hour is insane.
When you spend all of your time on social media, you’re destroying your attention span. Because social media, like porn or dating apps, gives you new stimuli after new stimuli after new stimuli. It’s never ending. While social media isn’t nearly as bad as porn for your dopamine receptors, it’s still damaging to spend that much time on it.
Many men spend hours on Instagram, fantasizing about the hottest women in their town, looking at pictures of their ex, or looking at some IG model with a million followers.
This social media matrix puts you in a trance
How many people wake up and the first thing they do is check social media? Countless, if not the majority. If that’s you then stop doing that.
Every time you lurk on the social media matrix, not only do you drain your energy, but you give these companies a chance to target you. You get worn down with ad after ad. Ads aren’t inherently evil, a good ad here or there is fine. But when they’re collecting data on you and then putting that back in your face, constantly pushing products, they wear you down. Your mind stops thinking of what you should build, and instead it thinks of what you should buy.
Constantly thinking of what to buy or not to buy is what a consumer thinks about. Sure, you need to buy things in this world. But that shouldn’t be taking up much mental space in your head. The majority of your mental energy needs to be put towards productive ideas in which you can create or build. Your mind needs to be focused on what good work you can do. You need to have the mind of a producer, not a consumer
Retain your seed
They’re using your hormones to Control you with sex and the allure of sex. Sex itself it’s bad. But when you’re manipulated through your sex drive and a slave to the matrix, you’re trapped in a vicious cycle. If you want sex, then go get it. But not by staring at a screen and looking at images of naked or almost naked women.
The answer to rise above the matrix is simple. Retain your seed. The social programming is strong. But you’re stronger. That is, you’re stronger when you have your life force energy. When you’re constantly draining your balls, you’re way more susceptible to the influences of the matrix.
Destroying the chains of slavery to the virtual matrix
No man who successfully retains his seed is going to be watching porn. He’s not going to be on dating apps. If he chooses to be on social media, he doesn’t lurk. Because he’s too busy living life. If anything, he posts something cool from his life and then gets off. He’s not going to see the ads or women barely dressed because he’s not spending time looking at what others are doing. Maybe he checks out what his boys are doing or a woman who DM’s him but that’s it. He’s not going to be thirsty DMing a million girls or commenting on how hot some woman is.
The man who retains is going to gain in his life. He’s going to fully immerse himself in the world around him. There’s no more being used by the matrix. No more will he allow himself to be manipulated by companies, women, and other forces who use the allure of sex to keep him weak.
Destroy the chains that are holding you back. Unplug from the virtual matrix. You don’t need to throw away your phone or live alone in the wild. You just need to retain your seed. Eat healthy. And avoid being mindlessly entertained on the screen all day long. Watching a movie here and there is fine.
Protect your Manhood
But say no to porn, dating apps, and obsessive time on social media. These 3 are the killers of manhood. They form the virtual matrix that is sucking the semen out of men. And by continuously causing the leakage of semen, the modern man is weakened. He’s too afraid to make bold moves in life. Talking to a woman, something you should do as a teenager, becomes a challenge, let alone doing something of actual significance like starting a business or standing up for a cause.
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